And the marble jar in the classroom is a jar where if the kids are making great choices together the teacher adds marbles.
Marble jar moments.
If they re making not great choices the teacher takes out marbles.
Not the big moments the small moments.
Speaking at a ucla based oprah winfrey super soul session brown used a marble jar positive behavior tool as a measure of how much we trust the people in our lives.
Have a printout of a marble jar and ask students to write notes giving examples of the marbles that fill the jar and the ones that break it.
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We use the marble jar as a metaphor for teaching that trust is built slowly over time and in small moments.
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Studies show it is the very small moments where trust is built.
Research changed brené s ongoing assumption that trust cannot be built around small moments in our lives.
And if the jar gets filled up there s a celebration for the class.
The marble jar integration idea to create safe and brave spaces of belonging we need to commit to doing our work before we do the work and to working within our scope and skill.
When the class cooperated accomplished great things or just had an all around good day the teacher added marbles to the jar.
She tells a great story of her daughter s teacher who kept a jar in the classroom and each time the class did something positive a marble went in the jar.
Ellen describes it as one of the worst moments of her life and said to her mother i will never trust anyone again.
In the following clip brené brown describes the concept of trust and the marble jar.
In her book daring greatly brené talks about marble jar friends.
For every marble that is in a jar people have earned your trust for that marble.
Some examples of small acts moments that build trust include showing up at a loved one s funeral and asking for help from friends.
Trust is like a marble jar.
Conversely when the class veered into the land of negatives marbles were removed.
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What do your friends do to earn marbles in your marble jar.
Her daughter s classroom had a marble jar that was used for positive and negative reinforcement.
Marbles are earned through small acts moments not grand gestures.
Trust is built in small moments.
The teacher kept a jar in the classroom and each time the class did something positive a marble went in the jar.